This book changed my life. Years before even hearing about this book I met the woman of my dreams. The issue was not finding the woman of my dreams, but having the chance to date her. This woman went away faster than she arrived and I never dated her.
Ironically, I first heard of this book while reading a Men's Health magazine. Like many men out there, I thought improving my physique would be the answer to attracting and dating beautiful women. Deep down i knew something was missing though. Despite creating a great physique for myself, women did not approach me and i certainly did not risk approaching them. Also, I saw some of the scrawniest men dating beautiful women!
I decided to stop spinning my wheels and buy the book finally. It taught me that physique was only a small piece of the pie. A great physique is only a symptom of self improvement, a principle that this book places great emphasis on. In fact, I've learned that attracting beautiful women is a symptom of being your best self.
I am now dating the woman of my dreams I mentioned before and have been for 9 months. This book not only teaches men how to grow some stones and approach women with amazing confidence, it teaches men how to continuously improve themselves, sustain a loving relationship and just have fun with it.
Thanks for all the priceless knowledge and encouragement to take action, Corey Wayne! Thank you for teaching me that it is my birthright to be truly in love with the woman of my dreams.

This book changed my life. Years before even hearing about this book I met the woman of my dreams. The issue was not finding the woman of my dreams, but having the chance to date her. This woman went away faster than she arrived and I never dated her.
Ironically, I first heard of this book while reading a Men's Health magazine. Like many men out there, I thought improving my physique would be the answer to attracting and dating beautiful women. Deep down i knew something was missing though. Despite creating a great physique for myself, women did not approach me and i certainly did not risk approaching them. Also, I saw some of the scrawniest men dating beautiful women!
I decided to stop spinning my wheels and buy the book finally. It taught me that physique was only a small piece of the pie. A great physique is only a symptom of self improvement, a principle that this book places great emphasis on. In fact, I've learned that attracting beautiful women is a symptom of being your best self.
I am now dating the woman of my dreams I mentioned before and have been for 9 months. This book not only teaches men how to grow some stones and approach women with amazing confidence, it teaches men how to continuously improve themselves, sustain a loving relationship and just have fun with it.
Thanks for all the priceless knowledge and encouragement to take action, Corey Wayne! Thank you for teaching me that it is my birthright to be truly in love with the woman of my dreams.

I almost never write reviews on Amazon, but I had to log on right after finishing this because I really enjoyed this quick read about men. It was short, sweet, and not belittling in any way toward women, which I appreciated. I can safely say that the content of this book matches a lot of what my boyfriend constantly tells me he needs, wants, and appreciates. The content seems very credible and is written in a "from a father to a daughter" style. That said, the content is beautifully and simply articulated in a way that I don't think most fathers could achieve.

I genuinely think every woman needs to read this book with an open mind. I myself used to be a very aggressive female in relationships because that's what worked well for me in the workplace. I learned to tone it down quite a bit when I met my current boyfriend who taught me graciousness, patience, and kindness. we've been together for over a year now and I couldn't be happier.

Thanks to the author for reaffirming some things I already knew and showing me even more ways I can communicate effectively with men.

I will never understand why guys need books like this to date us women. We are not actually from another planet, although some books suggest we are. We think a little differently from men, because we have to, but we are not really all that hard to understand, or so I thought.
In this book, Williams approaches the area of dating etiquette with a friendly, light touch. He manages to relay some good advice to guys about the do's and don'ts of dating, and seems to understand the way we women think. Kudos to him for taking the time to try and get more men to understand the importance of good communication skills in a relationship. Honestly, guys, that is like, more than half the battle won if you can just communicate to us gals clearly and honestly, not tell us what you think we want to hear, or expect us to be mind readers!
I know that we can seem rather mysterious and hard to approach, but that's not true. We like dating as much as you, but there are just a few things that we do differently. This book is pretty good for guys who need a little help getting through that first part of a relationship and on to building something more. Heck, if you can't make it past the first date, the relationship is doomed, I'd say. Williams has compiled some good advice to help guys navigate the murky waters of dating a little better, and women should be grateful! If he can help the guys to improve their communication skills, they are much better candidates for a long term relationship that you both will enjoy!
I like the way the author addresses various dating scenarios and the nuances of the various communication skills needed in each one. No relationship or situation is a `one size fits all' so each guy's dating skills should be tailored to the time and place, and of course, person. I also liked the way the author kept the tone lighthearted but still managed to get his point across. He seems to understand that we ladies are a little more complicated than most men realize, but we are not all that hard to please if you know which things to try!
I felt the book could have benefitted from more of an actual woman's perspective, although I understand that it is aimed mostly at guys. It seems like good advice to me, and not really just for dating. If more men bothered to learn proper communication skills, relationships at the office and in marriages would definitely improve, and both men and women would benefit. As for improving dating skills, well, I would say that practice makes perfect, so go ahead and ask someone out already!

I will never understand why guys need books like this to date us women. We are not actually from another planet, although some books suggest we are. We think a little differently from men, because we have to, but we are not really all that hard to understand, or so I thought.
In this book, Williams approaches the area of dating etiquette with a friendly, light touch. He manages to relay some good advice to guys about the do's and don'ts of dating, and seems to understand the way we women think. Kudos to him for taking the time to try and get more men to understand the importance of good communication skills in a relationship. Honestly, guys, that is like, more than half the battle won if you can just communicate to us gals clearly and honestly, not tell us what you think we want to hear, or expect us to be mind readers!
I know that we can seem rather mysterious and hard to approach, but that's not true. We like dating as much as you, but there are just a few things that we do differently. This book is pretty good for guys who need a little help getting through that first part of a relationship and on to building something more. Heck, if you can't make it past the first date, the relationship is doomed, I'd say. Williams has compiled some good advice to help guys navigate the murky waters of dating a little better, and women should be grateful! If he can help the guys to improve their communication skills, they are much better candidates for a long term relationship that you both will enjoy!
I like the way the author addresses various dating scenarios and the nuances of the various communication skills needed in each one. No relationship or situation is a `one size fits all' so each guy's dating skills should be tailored to the time and place, and of course, person. I also liked the way the author kept the tone lighthearted but still managed to get his point across. He seems to understand that we ladies are a little more complicated than most men realize, but we are not all that hard to please if you know which things to try!
I felt the book could have benefitted from more of an actual woman's perspective, although I understand that it is aimed mostly at guys. It seems like good advice to me, and not really just for dating. If more men bothered to learn proper communication skills, relationships at the office and in marriages would definitely improve, and both men and women would benefit. As for improving dating skills, well, I would say that practice makes perfect, so go ahead and ask someone out already!

As a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Professional Counselor, I have worked with hundreds of people for over 25 years. All shared one thing: relationship concerns - either working on an existing one or searching for the right one, sometimes ending one. Efficient Love by Robert Goodman addresses the issues of those who are seeking the right person without wasting time and energy on the same old path to Mr. or Ms.Wrong. It's natural to feel reluctant in figuring out how to find someone with whom to share your life. But Mr. Goodman's book outlines the perfect structure for an "approach plan."
In my professional opinion, the best thing we can do to achieve any goal, especially relationship ones, is to approach, never avoid. After reading Efficient Love, I think you will no longer feel shy or reluctant but will greatly benefit from the ProActive methodology for seeking a lasting relationship which is so expertly outlined in Mr. Goodman's book.